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The Words That Never Left
Fear holds back words in groups. Tag Rule dissolves the judgment tag so co-regulation can flow.
Tuesday, September 30, 2025
Fear Tag Rule
Metaphorical Narrative
In the circle, words rise but freeze.
The throat tightens, the script says: They will judge.
Yet the group’s nervous system waits for connection, not perfection.
Core Insight
Fear blocks co-regulation by attaching judgment tags to expression.
Tag Rule severs the script: no meaning for 24h, expiry in 30d.
Biology wants free flow; fear is the only barrier.
When the tag expires, presence restores the current.
Saturday Experiment
Next time fear silences you, whisper internally: “Tag expired.”
Then share one sentence anyway.
Sunday Reflection
What proof did the person find that words flowed safely?
How did co-regulation replace fear once the tag dissolved?