Me No Ransom
Breaking free from the ego’s ransom note that demands obedience for happiness.
Saturday, August 23, 2025
Metaphorical Narrative
A note is slipped under the door.
Big black letters: “Be the good boy, or you will never live happily.”
It feels like the handwriting of a captor. The demand is simple — polish, serve, obey — and in exchange, maybe you’ll be allowed a smile, a breath, a moment of peace.
But one day, you see the trick. Happiness isn’t locked in his safe. It was never in his hands. The ransom note is just paper, the ink a bluff.
You burn the note. And in the smoke, you breathe free.
Core Insight
The ego tries to hold happiness hostage. It whispers that joy is conditional — only granted if you obey.
But joy doesn’t come from the ego’s approval. It comes from you living in your own skin, without ransom payments.
The counter-command: “Me no ransom.”
It severs the deal. Happiness is not borrowed — it is owned.
Saturday Experiment
- Catch the moment when you think, “If I don’t do X, I can’t feel okay.”
- Pause. Recognize the ransom note in disguise.
- Say: “Me no ransom.” Then go do something small that feels good without permission — a walk, music, laughter.
Sunday Reflection
Write in third person:
- How does he look holding the ransom note before burning it?
- What shifts in his body once he realizes the note was fake?
- Where in his life can he claim happiness without paying for it?