The Wolf Licks Instead of Biting
When the primal Wolf hesitates, ego tries a fake loving mask. Two dissolutions reveal different ways fear loses its grip.
Tuesday, September 16, 2025
Metaphorical Narrative
Dinner time arrives, and with it a familiar shadow. A past character image rises, claws out, ready to strike. The Wolf inside is summoned. But instead of tearing the attacker apart, the Wolf… licks.
Confusion follows. Was this love? Was this softness? No, it was fear wrapped in false affection — a trick of ego to shut down primal expression.
Later, another character appears. This time the Wolf doesn’t hesitate. One clean strike and the shadow is gone.
But the first figure returns in disguise. This time you don’t use the Wolf at all — you place it on a train of robbers. Among predators, its weakness shows. It crumbles into absurd raw meat. The show ends comically, both figures gone by different means.
Core Insight
The ego doesn’t always fight with claws; sometimes it fakes tenderness. The “lick” was not compassion, but a shutdown strategy. By blending fear with false softness, ego tried to confuse the primal power that could dissolve it.
Yet dissolution came in two forms:
- Primal strike — swift, raw, undeniable.
- Contextual exposure — putting ego into a larger frame where its script collapses.
Both reveal the same principle: ego cannot survive when it’s either met directly (primal expression) or exposed against a bigger backdrop (bigger stick).
Saturday Experiment
- Notice when ego softens fear into fake kindness — the “lick.”
- Try a primal interruption: a growl, a grounding movement, or a sudden strike of presence.
- Or, shift the frame — imagine placing the fear among bigger forces where it can’t win. Watch it collapse.
Sunday Reflection
- In third person, describe a time “they” mistook ego’s fake softness for safety.
- How did “they” feel once they used primal expression or context shift instead?
- What space opened once the disguise was gone?